Editing Virtual Event Code of Conduct (section)

===Do===

* Respectfully share what method works best for you, while giving others space to think differently and contribute other ideas  
* Speak your own narrative, from your own unique culture  
* Model inclusionary expertise - if others in the group appear to be “lost”, slow down; stop and ask for input  
* Create events that are all-ages appropriate  
* Give everyone a chance to talk, only interrupting if absolutely necessary - for example, Code of Conduct violations
* Stop, listen and ask for clarification if someone perceives your behavior or presentation as violating the Code of Conduct  
* Use words that accurately describe the situation
* Only discuss someone else’s lifestyle practices if they invite you to a conversation on the topic  
* Ask someone before you hug them; keep your hands/body to yourself, even when joking, unless the other person has given verbal consent  
* Disengage and find another activity if someone did not invite you and is not engaging with you  
* Exercise the right to talk about your own identity if you want to, or not if you don’t want to  
* Use the pronouns people have specified for themselves